Taking Off a Pound of Flesh!

We’ve all either heard or read the following scripture from 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 that says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails.”  Just reading all those tough requirements makes me want to break into a sweat. Especially on those days that I want to say, “I don’t wanna love!”  and I would rather sing ,“It’s my party and I will cry if I want to, cry if I want to!” In other words ,we all have our own self pity, and it’s all about me parties fighting love tooth and nail!

However, God’s word is very clear on this subject of loving people past their imperfections and sins. Love the person-hate the sin!  After all, God did this for us, so why wouldn’t we act in the same manner? If we say we love God, but can't forgive and  choose love then  we are hypocrites. We were created to love, molded by the very God who is love.   You are the one who has to make the decision to perfect love in your life. Making a decision to love and committing it to it -is no easy task.  In fact, there will be times when you would rather run a full marathon, be beaten by a stick then allow love to rule in your heart.   It will seem as if a pound of flesh is being torn off of you.  There will be times when it would be easier to become resentful, seek your own rights and retaliate into hiding or your corner of the ring then to choose love. 

 But we are called to a higher standard than this.  Love is in fact opposed to our senses or flesh! Our flesh is trained to make us happy. Therefore we seek to be selfish, and have our way.  But love should never seek its own way but rather think of the other person.  Ouch- that hurts!   Sacrifice is always required if you are going to love.  Just look at Jesus’s example on the cross.  I am sure He would of  have rather   taken a long beach vacation, slurping on some passionate fruit drink while  relaxing in His Father’s love ,but instead He decided to pass that love to us.  

In order to walk in love, you must be willing to take off a pound of flesh! Some days or seasons, two or more pounds may be required! It starts with making a decision then committing to it throughout the day when you are tempted to come out of God’s Word.  Say things like, “ I will not be fretful, resentful or touchy and will choose not to take offense. I will forgive and choose to be a lover and not  a hater today.”  And when you do- you go free! Also, you must learn to believe in love, knowing that its power is awesome and life changing for you and others around you affected by your choice. 

 Agape love is a new kind of control.  It helps you master every situation.  Learning to take  off flesh will become that much easier as you commit to it. Like anything, it starts with a choice.  What will your choice be today?  How much flesh do you need to take off today when concerning love?  I love what E.W Kenyon says about  agape love, “a new kind of selfishness”- You no longer seek your own success, yet your success is guaranteed-gotta  LOVE that!

Speaking of LOVE- Here is our Movie Quotes for today! Be the first to take a guess and win a point towards our Valentine's Giveaway

1)"My darling girl, when are you going to understand that being normal is not necessarily a virtue? It rather denotes a lack of courage."

2) "You will never know love unless you surrender to it."

3) "I'd rather die tomorrow than live a hundred years without knowing you."

4) "Angels are like diamonds; each one is unique and cannot be created, but can only be found."

5) "If your not willing to sound stupid, you're not worthy of falling in love."

Love Me Tender

      How many times have I told myself, "I hate my legs, hips and butt!?" Too many times to count.  Or how many times have I told myself, " You're so fat!?"  I've had hundreds of these conversations to myself through the years .  What about you?  However, as  I get older they are becoming less and less because I have sloooowly learned to love myself or I just don't care anymore-lol!  I have to admit, I've been my worse enemy all these years and sometimes still find it hard to silence that judge in my mind.

     Learning to love yourself is important because it can truly affect your life and those around you.  However, in this day and age there is a lot of pressure on how you should look and what you should be and do. When faced with these challenges it can become difficult to  truly embrace and love ourselves because  we feel like we can never measure up.  The truth is, we can't! I don’t know about you but when I try to compare myself to those impossible standards or to anyone else, I always come out feeling like a loser. Stay away from the comparison trap-it's deadly!

      The world tells us we have to be the best at everything and there is constantly more pressure added daily.  It’s not enough to be just a stay- at- home mom anymore.  Instead, you have to do it wearing Channel! I guess my sweats and hole filled tees can't keep up with the show, What Not to Wear! To add to my stress of being a SAHM, I might feel like I have to be a business woman and an incredible cook who can prepare a  meal that impresses her  family and guests- every time! I don’t know about you, but if I can get a meal on the table without burning it and on time, then I am doing good!  No one likes feeling like a loser. So why do we continue to buy into the world’s view?  Aren’t we setting ourselves up for failure?

             A majority of the people today didn’t receive what was needed when they were growing up to help them develop an appreciative attitude.  This in fact, affected their adult years.  I believe that having a thankful heart is the key to contentment within yourself and the world in which you live. Unfortunately, because some of us lacked in our upbringing with parents that couldn’t teach this or pass this on, it truly has a negative impact on who we are today.  This has been going on from generation to generation. These restrictions caused us to develop belief systems centered around ideas that we are not worthy of love, abundance, peace, happiness, joy, prosperity, loving relationships, meaningful work or whatever else seems to negatively dominate your life.

     Learning to love yourself is the basis for accepting anything good in your life. You can say all the affirmations you want, do the  check lists in Self magazine, go to therapy or buy every self help book out there  but if you don't love yourself FIRST and foremost when it is all said and done , then all that  work you are doing will fall on faulty  ground. I’ve always loved the Proverbs 14:1 that says, “A wise woman builds her house(perception of who she is based off of God) but a foolish one tears it down( with all the lies the world feeds her).”

     Learning to love yourself and see yourself as God sees you will impact you in ways you never dreamed of. Building a secure foundation on the world’s standards will eventually bring you down and the people around you.  You can’t keep up!  You must  learn to be gentle with yourself and understand that you are perfect in the eyes of God and from that flows love towards everything else.  

Here are some things you can do to love yourself:

-Stop All Criticism about yourself. Hard to do, I know! Accept yourself exactly as you are. You are what you think about yourself.  When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
- Find 10 things you like about yourself and add to it daily. Start small and you will eventually come to appreciate the way God created you! After all you perfectly made in His imageJ

-Be gentle, kind and patient to yourself. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
- Let your thoughts be kind to you! Kick any thoughts that are negative and refuse to think them.
-Support yourself. Find ways to support yourself. Have great friends and people around you that love you. Get rid of negative influences.
-Take care of your body. Learn about health and nutrition. Get pro-active for yourself. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and the only body you will ever have!
-Whisper sweet things about yourself to yourself! Speak positive affirmations over yourself and the areas you of your body or life you don’t like. 

     In the end, if you don’t love yourself, than how can anyone else?  You need to love yourself first before you can truly receive and enjoy the love from another human being. In what ways can you begin to love yourself more today?  

Movie Quotes Giveaway Contest 

1)Sometimes I wish I had never met you. Because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there

2)You spend all your time looking for love yet you feel nothing even when its staring you in the face I will love again but You will spend all your life knowing you turned your back on love and that makes you a hypocrite 

3)What do you want to marry me for anyhow?
So I can kiss you anytime I want.
4)Samantha: I have to ask you a question. It's a good one so think about it. If two people love each other, but they just can't seem to get it together, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?

Inspired Love

We all know how to say, “I love you” but few people really possess the ability to truly understand what it entails. This month on EEE we are trying to express that love is more than just words or emotions but rather is a powerful force that can change lives. Below is a true story of a Father who lives it every day and has dedicated his life to its very cause-to love!  Dick and Rick Hoyt is a story about committed love and how that love holds no boundaries.  I saw this story a couple of years ago and it spoke to so many places in my heart.  Today, I would like to share it with you and I pray you too will be inspired by it as you begin your week ahead.  Be sure and click on the you-tube video website to see this inspiring story of love come to life. 

When Rick Hoyt was about to be born, the umbilical wrapped around his neck, depriving his body of oxygen leaving him with very little chance for a normal life.  Initially, doctors told the new parents their son was a vegetable, with no higher brain function. But the parents didn't believe it; and hoped for more for their son.  Eventually the doctors discovered that Rick did in fact hold higher brain function.  However, the lack of oxygen did deprive Rick of the ability to control his muscles, leaving him essentially a quadriplegic.  

                 The legacy of Team Hoyt began when Rick found out about a fundraiser for a friend. The fundraiser involved running, and wheelchair-bound Rick told his Dad he wanted to participate so he could help his friend. So Dick Hoyt took his son with him and ran, rolling him around the track, raising money.  After the run, Rick told his Dad that running made him feel free for the first time. His father was so moved by his son’s freedom that he was inspired to keep that feeling alive.  Dick took Rick running, swimming, bicycling, climbing--anything he wanted to do. Today, they compete in Triathlons. Dick loved his son and would do anything for him! It's an amazing story of a father and son's courage, determination, and love.

            The best way to appreciate this story is to experience it for yourself. Please click on the website below and watch this 7 minute video. You won’t be disappointed! It never ceases to amaze me the power behind one human spirit touching another. Hopefully, you will be changed like I was.  This sisters is the kind of love that inspires, motivates and never fails.  What would God have you do today to display this kind of commitment-love?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDnrLv6z-mM

Valentine's Day Giveaway Movie Questions

1)" If some lives form a perfect circle, other take shape in ways we cannot predict or always understand. Loss has been part of my journey. But it has also shown me what is precious. So has love for which I can only be grateful.

2)" And you'll just forget about me, right?"
     "Every day."
 3) "Choose between yesterday and tomorrow." 

And two more left over from the weekend:

4. "Love is like the wind...you can't see it, but you can feel it."

5. "I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it."

Movie Quotes, Oh my!

So, today I am suffering from a horrible headache that is a slight improvement over a migraine from earlier. Hence, the late post today. Still have more fun for all!

After yesterday's start, Both Jessica (Carlin) and Jody (toad) have one point. I'm going to list the remaining movie quote from yesterday and add three more. Enjoy!

1. "Love is like the wind...you can't see it, but you can feel it."

2. "May I ask your name, my lady? Or perhaps angels have no names, only beautiful faces."

3. "I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it."

4. “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more; that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.”

Friday Fun with Love

Learning to
Overlook
Vain
Expectations

I wrote this poem-thingie when I was in high school and had it posted to my mirror. It is a good reminder of both what love is and what it isn't. It isn't superficial, it doesn't judge. It is encouraging, kind, and all the other things you find in 1 Corintians 13.

So, now we're going to celebrate love with a party and a contest!

You can read the rules for our Valentine's Quote Contest in yesterdays post. I've brought the scrumptious looking snacks pictured above. Join us!

Here are the first quotes. We'll start off easy with some fun ones. You can answer one, or all. Whatever you think you know! Leave your answer(s) in the comment box along with what dessert you're bringing to share.

1. "Death can not stop true love, it can only delay it for a little while"

2. "If I tell you I love you, can I keep you forever?"

3. "Love is like the wind...You can't see it, but you can feel it."

Love and Valentine's

I find it quite coincidental that we are discussing love in the month of February, don't you? Valentine's Day, as romantic as it's supposed to be, is a great opportunity to celebrate the love we have for friends and family as well!

So...

Kimchi and I are celebrating our love for YOU by hosting a contest. *cheers*

Here's how it will work:

Starting on Friday, Kimchi and I will be posting love quotes from movies and songs. The first person to guess a movie/song will be awarded one point. This will run through next Friday (except for Sunday). On Saturday will have a Lovefest Bonanza with all kinds of opportunities to win more points. The person with the most points on Monday, February 14th will be awarded a special gift from Kimchi and I. If there happens to be more than one person with the most points, we'll draw names from a hat.

This all begins tomorrow! We'll be posting like normal so make sure to read the whole post for the contest quotes. :)

In the meantime, what's your most memorable Valentine?